I do
not know what my name means. When I was born, my name was Gabriel, but my
father changed my name with my older brother, who was five years old. In
Brazil, legislation allows the fathers to register the child in the first
fifteen days of birth without the presence of the mother, provided that
witnesses are present, which was not difficult for my father, since he was the
owner of a bar at that time. The change of my name was a big surprise to my
mother and, at the same time, a great shock. My mother refused to accept the
fact that my father simply modified my name without her knowledge and kept
calling me Gabriel for the first three months of birth, but time beat her. She
could not do anything about it, since my father was protected by Brazilian law.
In
fact, my father chose that name for me because my name is a big joke among
people playing soccer player, in Brazil, and he realized that this joke would
transfer into my life. My father's father was correct. I continue to listen to
the famous phrase that the soccer narrator said to the most famous goalkeeper
of the Brazilian soccer team in his moments of glory on the pitch: “vai que é
sua Taffarel”. That means “Go! the ball is yours, Taffarel”, in English. This is why my
name is Taffarel. Everyone who knows about football and knows about this joke
wants to play with me, including here in the USA.
Although
this situation of having to listen to the same joke every moment of my life can
be boring, I like my name. I am an open person and I make this arrangement a
pleasant way, so I use this joke to make new friends. The funny part of my name
is the pronunciation, and especially with people from other cultures who want
to pronounce my name. Another funny thing about my name is how to spell it correctly.
Many people spell it incorrectly. It is not easy to pronounce my name in my
native language. Can you imagine for other people of different cultures? When
people get embarrassed by my name, I try to explain my story in a fun way to make
them smile and then we can make it as if it were a great joke, so we can start
a new friendship.
In
conclusion, having a weird name can often put people in embarrassing
situations. On the other hand, when we learn to deal with unpleasant situations
with good humor and in a funny way, we can use this in our favor to make happy
people, since they will smile together with you, and at the same time we will
make new friendships. In addition, having a different name can help someone
become an uninhibited person, which can also help in a good network for a
possible job or business proposal. Just be yourself and be happy.
I an sure I can spell your name correctly next time.
ReplyDeleteI hope you are happy with your name and now after long time your mother too.
ReplyDeleteI can tell you are a positive person from the story
ReplyDeleteHey Taffa,
ReplyDeleteWhat I did enjoy the most from your story was how you manage to be happy with your name. I'm a soccer fan so, I watched Taffarel playing on TV.